“If
anything
is sacred the human body is sacred.”
Walt
Whitman
Recently,
after an evening visit to some local friends I started to walk home
when I was
confronted by a gang of Afro-Caribbean ‘hoodies‘. I
tried to break the ice by
saying: “Hi, you OK?” when one of them came up from
behind and hit me over the
head with a iron bar. I collapsed to the ground, but like a boxer in
the ring
on auto - pilot, I very quickly stood up and they disbanded. It all
came as
something of a shock. I have sustained hearing loss on one side but
I’m hoping
that this will recover. I now live with the realization that I could
have been
killed. I have always walked the streets of my neighbourhood with
impunity but
now I know the risks involved. Life is a precious gift and I just feel
so
grateful that I’m still alive.
After
this incident I had repeated headaches, jaw aches and difficulties with
sleeping. I felt very vulnerable. My mind kept going over the event and
I
became increasingly outraged and resentful for what had happened. The
emotional
need to stay attached to this anger however seemed to block my
body’s healing
process. My mind was racing away thinking of retribution and punishment
for the
culprit and my body was sadly left behind, neglected. Soon I reached a
point
when I could go no further, I had to let go of my emotional
preoccupations and
allow healing into my life……
Laying
down on my bed, as a regular practice, I started to undertake body
scans
(creative visualizations) paying particular attention to the painful
regions.
Dwelling there, saying a soft hello and waiting patiently for a
response, I
soon felt somehow connected again. Soft breathing – calming,
relaxed - slowly
ensued and my awareness gently touched and reassured the pain. Fairly
soon, and
quite magically the pain seemed to transform into a sensation that
whispered to
me: “I’m OK.” then I knew I was really on
the road to recovery. An outburst of
weeping, brought on by a deep feeling of gratitude, let me know how
much I had
taken my physical wellbeing for granted.
“Your pain
is the breaking of the shell that encloses your
understanding.”
Gibran
Our
bodies are sacred vessels that contain all our potential, all our
futures so we
must be mindful to nurture and nourish them. This is our spiritual
practice
that will help us to lead a full and active life. Sometimes, because we
become
so preoccupied with the tangled mess of everyday living we forget to
engage in
relaxation time to smooth the body. Then, if we allow this neglect to
go on too
long we start suffering. One of the central lessons I have learnt in
life, that
has cost me dearly is that of ignoring body signals that told me I was
too
deeply entwined in anxiety and busy-ness. I ignored these signals of
course,
far too busy to pay attention, then I collapsed with exhaustion. I
eventually
recovered but in my later reading I became really surprised by the
amount of
medical research evidence that linked abnormal stress levels, often
fueled by
anxiety and busy-ness, with physical and mental illnesses.
Life
can be difficult at times, there often seems so much that we need to do
in
order to survive but by ‘ tripping over ‘ to the
hyper mode of operating we
seriously challenge our bodies. A primary precept that we should honour
is that
related to body care. We must constantly listen to our own bodies,
monitor
their wellbeing simply because they are us. They are not independent
entities
that we visit occasionally as we do sick relatives, they are you, they
are me….
MEDITATIVE WALKING
When
I’m anxious, having troubling thoughts and worries that feed
into my body to
induce aches and pain, I deliberately slow my walking down to
meditative pace.
Every movement of the walking then comes under mindful observation and
fairly
soon I feel a relaxed presence appear, as if from nowhere, to slowly
heal me.
This reduced pace is not always easy to sustain for long, especially in
a fast
track modern world, but the more I engage with it the more benefit I
seem to
derive. Often this mindful walking practice slows me down on other
activities
as well, even writing to engage me deeply and meaningfully, creating in
me a
sense of peace and serenity. Other exercises that induce this feeling
in me
are: yoga, gardening, rambling and cycling.
When
our bodies are in gentle mode, calm and relaxed, we find that our minds
will
soon follow. This often feels like a homecoming where we have come back
to our
bodies, our natural state of being that our minds have allowed us to
wander
away from.
NON-DUALISM
In
this article I have drawn a distinction between the mind and body when
in
reality they are one of the same. The mind is in the body and the body
is in
the mind - one fully functional, integrated system of wholeness where
every
minute cell has intelligence and communicates that intelligence (along
with our
emotions) to billions of other cells. A body wide network of
‘talkers‘ and
‘listeners‘ that is quite astounding in its
complexity and richness. This view
of the mind / body as an interactive, homogenous operation is no longer
considered idle speculation from the fringes of pseudo science but a
scientifically verified reality that is altering our perception of how
we
function as homo sapiens. Another
startling reality of this wondrous ‘machine’ - that
constitutes you and me that
we walk around in – is its ability to repair itself. Similar
to the Gaia
principle of self regulation, the body has a remarkable homeostasis
quality
that engenders self healing on a level that is quite miraculous.
“Your body
is precious. It is your vehicle for awakening. Treat it
with care.”
The
Buddha
LOOKING AT OURSELVES
AND OUR PLANET
In
our world of hyper activity, often induced by market place dynamics, we
can
easily become over-preoccupied with busyness. Never ending pursuits and
actions, movements and motions that keep us distracted from our real
selves,
our deeper being. Human activity, globally, has now reached neurotic
proportions and is the major contributor to climate warming. Perhaps we
have
reached a stage in our development when we should be slowing down more,
taking
time out to appreciate the quieter moments of our existence. In nature,
winter
is a time of hibernation, a period of rest for all living things
except, it
seems, the human species. Industrial plants, factories, shopping malls
and
financial markets know nothing of rest, they just perpetually go on
without any
regard for the sanctity of stillness. Our 24/7 culture of neurosis is
slowly
killing our sensibilities, harming our bodies and destroying the planet
that
sustains us but all we do we is just put our heads down and carry on
regardless. If we really want longevity and a quality of life, that
only leaves
a soft carbon footprint – we must stop doing so many things.
CONCLUSION
I
often have to remind myself that I should attend as much to my
UNDER-worked
body as I do to my OVER-worked mind. The latter already receives enough
exercise, too much perhaps. But unfortunately the former does get
neglected at
times, or even worse pushed into stressful situation that can cause so
much
unwarranted damage, with possible long-term effects.
When
we are at peace with ourselves, serene and tranquil, united in body and
mind,
we find ourselves in a sacred space where we are nourished and
protected. Some
experience this feeling as a profound meditation or prayer, others as a
healing, yet others as a mandala of awakening, but however we try to
define it,
one thing seems certain, our bodies have their own intelligence, their
own
wisdom that requires us to stop, listen and take note of what they are
trying
to tell us.
“
Here in this body are sacred rivers, here are the sun and moon, as well
as the
pilgrimage places. I have not encountered another temple as blissful as
my own
body.”
Saraha
JOURNEY
WELL AND BE BODY WISE